words from my mum.


Some wisdom from mum today. I saw her. I thought she would be all “I told you so” but she was good.
Her advice:
-sort yourself out first before being with anyone else
-forgive yourself and make peace with yourself
-you cannot do anything about the past
-concentrate on today
-build bridges
-be kind to yourself
-be kind to others

5 responses »

  1. Yes x7. She is absolutely correct.
    You made a brave choice, you spoke up about your unhappiness in your marriage, garner strength from that and keep moving forward.

    The mantra I repeated to myself over the course of several unsuccessful relationships was: I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me.

    Your mileage may vary. But repeating this and believing it helped immensely.

  2. Oh Cil. I wish I could give you a giant mofo of a hug right now. Your Mum is a smart cookie. I hope you are okay comrade. You are a brave and strong and wonderful woman and good on you for running with the pain on the weekend. Much love to you xx

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