Some wisdom from mum today. I saw her. I thought she would be all “I told you so” but she was good.
Her advice:
-sort yourself out first before being with anyone else
-forgive yourself and make peace with yourself
-you cannot do anything about the past
-concentrate on today
-build bridges
-be kind to yourself
-be kind to others
Oct22
Demons, dancing, doctorates, debauchery. 
Yes x7. She is absolutely correct.
You made a brave choice, you spoke up about your unhappiness in your marriage, garner strength from that and keep moving forward.
The mantra I repeated to myself over the course of several unsuccessful relationships was: I don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with me.
Your mileage may vary. But repeating this and believing it helped immensely.
Mum’s are always right! They always know what is best for their offspring.
Yes x 1000. Your mum is spot on! Big hugs darl xx
I need to have a talk with your Mum too 😉
Great advice…
Oh Cil. I wish I could give you a giant mofo of a hug right now. Your Mum is a smart cookie. I hope you are okay comrade. You are a brave and strong and wonderful woman and good on you for running with the pain on the weekend. Much love to you xx